Wo(Men’s) Day
Special
Today morning
was so special. I got lot of wonderful wishes of women’s day. Everyone was
making me feel that women are very important to this world. Women known for
sacrifice, patience, love, dedication, commitment and a list of qualities
without end. It’s great to know that people understand these things and give
respect to women's contribution. So, as it was my day, I had my list of gifts
ready 😊😊. I was just trying to help Mufti in
selection. I know it’s my day but I don’t like to give trouble to someone ...not
my style 😉😉. What did you buy for me? I asked
Mufti-
‘You just gave
me a list. I will get all by evening,’ he said.
‘Ya but this is
my list. What did you buy your own for me? I asked.
‘Hmmm…I saw you
were making list yesterday. That's why I didn’t buy anything. You even don’t like
things of my choice,’ he said.
‘That’s not
true,’ I said.
‘Okay…recall
that bag which I bought for your birthday gift,’ he said.
‘Ya but that
was dull brown colour and I like bright colours. Apart from that I always like
your gifts,’ I said.
‘And that
pendant? …our anniversary gift?’ he said.
‘That was so
…which pendant? I don’t remember,’ I said.
‘Great, you
even don’t remember. Okay, what about the nail paint combo?’ he asked.
‘That because I
had same colours…,’I said and smiled.
‘Hmmm, so now
we are on same point,’ he said.
‘Okay, I agree
but I like surprises. Today is women’s day and there is no surprise for me,’ I
said.
‘Don’t be upset
sweetie, we will go for shopping and complete your whole wish list then we will
go for candle light dinner and then we will go for a long drive. I will make
your day special,’
‘Wow …that’s like my boy. That’s why I
married you. You know my choices very well,’ I said.
‘Really?’ he said.
‘I mean…except
few things,’ I said.
‘Okay lady, I
got your point. But this is so unfair. There is a special day for women but
what about men? he asked.
‘Hmmm, you also
want a gift? I asked.
‘No, I mean
there is no special day for men. Anyways, I guess there is uncountable list of our achievements which
cannot be appreciated in one day…. Hehehe,’ he said.
‘Oh, so you
think that women’s achievement can be count in only one day. Now these are actually
not fair words …I am not going anywhere with you,’ I said.
‘Oho, I was just
kidding. Don’t spoil your mood,’ he said.
‘Okay, if you
say so,’ I said.
‘Let’s get
ready and don’t take much time otherwise we have to skip shopping plan,’ he
said.
‘No, we can’t
skip shopping. I have already made plans of my new dress, matching bellies,
jewellery, clutch purse. I have also select the place where we will go and I
wear all these,’ I said.
‘Oh my god,
save me,’ he said.
‘Hmmm...I heard
that,’ I said.
We went to market
for shopping, dinner and for a long drive. It was wonderful day. Specially my
shopping 😊😊 but Mufti was roaming and waiting for
the final list or I guess for final bill.
That day gone
but left a question asked by Mufti. Is there any special day to celebrate in honour of men? Do we respect men’s contributions also? So, with these
questions again I took help my friend, google and come to know about a date 19th
November as Men’s day. There are countries who celebrate this as the same way
as women’s day. But I didn’t find the same trend around me. I am not
underestimating women’s problems. I am aware and understand all the
difficulties women face especially in Asian countries. All challenges they face
even in getting basic rights and I am with them in their fight. But on the
other hand, there are men who also understand these problems, who started
support women in each aspect of life. There are successful women and their success
comes because of supporting backbones of their men. In spite of the narrow-thinking
environment and unfair culture with they born and brought up, they are
understanding the importance of women and giving their support. I am against of
men who don’t consider women equal to them but I also think we should thank to
men who are with us in this fight and helping us to create a beautiful world
which is equal and fearless to everyone. There won’t be any difference.
So, I just want
to say ‘Let’s thank to those wonderful men who struggle every day for their
family, men who are fighting for their wives, sisters and daughters. If we
start this culture and encourage them as a role model. May be our coming generations
get a different world. That day we won’t need to celebrate any single day
because every day will be special and everyone will be happy. Let’s come ahead,
give your support in creating a wonderful world.
Don’t forget
the date 19th November. Send 100 times more wishes to men around you,
make them feel special, appreciate their efforts and show our women power.
😊